How To Get Rid of The Problems?

Get rid of the problems – When we talk about life, goals are important and everyone should have it. But, do we know how to achieve goals?

How To Get Rid of The Problems?

Goal management is a regular process and is needed in every part of our life. It is divided into two parts: Get rid of the problems

1.) Planning of goals

2.) Getting rid of obstacles

We are not able to achieve our goals, not because goals are unreachable, rather it is due to unexpected problems that come in our way. Here, we need to understand that nothing comes easy so, is the case with goals achievement.

It does come with bombs called problems which need to be diffused.

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There are 3 categories of problems that come in our way

Environmental
Social
Personal

Environmental problems

These are the ones that are unexpected and occur suddenly for which we are not prepared as maybe we are not aware of it or we cannot control them. But, if some research is done proactively we can overcome these problems and we may deal with them effectively.

If you plan with a futuristic approach we can understand the problems which can come well and also understand our decision and actions. we need to adopt a 360-degree approach of thinking where we start making full use of our abilities to foresight to make decisions.

Remember “Anything that goes wrong will go wrong at the worst possible time when you least expect.”

Social problems

These are the ones that happen because of your support system including your family members, friends, and peer group. They are either not willing to cooperate or do not have proper knowledge which makes them incapable of fulfilling the responsibilities assigned to them.

If you do little forward planning you can ensure that you clarify your needs adequately, download your knowledge thoroughly, and your instructions with utter carefulness. You also need to look at the possibilities to influence people by understanding their needs, motives, and desires.

Personal problems

These are the ones that relate to your psychology which include your fears, beliefs, emotions, or state of mind and behaviour. It also includes habits like perfectionism, procrastination, pessimism, etc. The in-competencies like personal skills, communication skills, etc.

These are the problems that 80% of people deal with but these can be taken care of if you commit yourself to it as it relates to you, your thought process, or how you behave.

A3 Formula(Acquire, Analyze, and Act)

Acquire – You need to acquire adequate guidance from mentors, coaches, and experts in the field of your career so that you know what to do. Then you need to acquire knowledge so that you are an expert in your field and you know the problem. You can also ask for support from your peer group if needed in order to make things work.
Analyze – After acquiring the knowledge you should do an appropriate analysis of the problem so that you have full details of the problem. while doing the analysis first get the basic details of the problem like whether the problem exists or not? when did it start? how did it start?
While doing the analysis you should also look at the consequences of the problem as if it continues to be there. what bigger problem can be because of that?. How will it affect you, your life, or the people around you? You also need to look for ways to control the effect of the problem on you and the people around you.
During the whole process, you can look at the options available to you like who all are the people who can assist you? what can you do differently so that this obstacle moves out of your way? and when will you get to know that the obstacle is resolved?.
It is also suggested that you should see the positive side of the problem as every problem comes with new learning and hope. The answers to questions like what have you learned? or how it has made you a better person? will give you the positive effect of the problem.
Act- when you have done the analysis and acquired knowledge its time to act so write the problem, plan the objective, and how the problem needs to be solved? Develop a mindset that beliefs in taking actions creatively.
and at the end start working towards it.

After doing all that will be the outcomes or results. The results will be:

You will be able to take a decision regarding what you want and what you do not want.
get rid of negative feelings like quitting or denial.
You will stop looking for sympathy.
stop blaming others or yourself.
cultivate positive feelings like optimism, gratitude, commitment, proactiveness.
You will cultivate discipline.
You will cultivate self-confidence and self-belief.
learn to involve in experiments.
learn to accept circumstances as they are.
You will learn to make the necessary sacrifices.
start taking small steps at a time.
You will stop giving excuses.
You will ultimately have a problem-solving approach by looking at opportunities in problems.

So, you can see how an obstacle is just solvable if a sincere effort is made to solve it. It is just a matter of taking those few steps with a positive frame of mind. So, now when there is an obstacle look at it as an opportunity to grow as a person and as an expert in your field.

About the Author: Anju Jindal

Anju is a trainer, entrepreneur, and career growth specialist who helps students, working professionals, women, and Job seekers to reach out to their goals by implementing a Career Growth plan