Who is a better communicator?
A better Communicator is a person who can communicate with others without any problems, can influence people, can create an impact on people and people should listen to him.
So, What does it take to become a fearless or a better communicator?
Can anyone learn how to be a communicator?
Is communication only for the people who can speak English?
Let me answer all the questions of yours regarding the same in this Vlog of mine.
First of all, Communication can surely be learned by anyone.
Communication is just like learning how to ride a bicycle or how to cook. If you have the willingness to work at it, you can improve the quality of every part of your life.
The question is – Are you really ready to work at it, the way you worked at learning a bicycle or you learned cooking?
If yes, Just check this video on how to become a better communicator and you will get to know some things which you can start with to learn communication without even joining any course.
Few things which no teacher, no institute, no parents can do on your behalf is to learn something on your behalf or practice something on your behalf. These few things need to be done by you only. And, these need to be done even after having lots of apprehension about whether it will work or not.
Why quit even before start learning.
Just follow these few things to become a better communicators and see the results with your own self.
1.) HAVE A LEARNING MINDSET
We are what we are because of our mindset and it plays a big role when it comes to our personality and the way we conduct ourselves. Mindset is basically an established set of attitudes and the way we think. The basic mindset which will help us to be a fearless communicator is
1.) 100 % commitment
2.) 0 Comfort zone
4.) Do things for yourself
5.) Take action and don’t believe in perfection.
2.) LEARN THE LANGUAGE NATURALLY
Have you seen a small kid when he starts learning and speaking?
How does he learn it?
We make the kid observe and listen to what we are saying which needs to be till the time he is not fully recognizing the object. Once the recognition is there the kid starts speaking with us. This is how he learns the full mother tongue language or the language which is spoken in our home.
Gradually we introduce reading from books for better learning. Lastly, he starts writing and this is the natural way we have been learning. The same system needs to be followed for language learning and communication.
3.) PRACTICE SHADOWING
We first need to find a mentor or a person like whom we want to speak. Start observing and listening to the mentor for as many times as you can. Then you can try speaking like your mentor.
You need to find a person who is probably an Indian speaker so that you can copy the accent, pronunciations, and expressions easily. You can also record yourself speaking like your mentor and you will see the difference from your first video to 10th video. This improvement will be regular and with the time you will practice and get better.
4.) SPEAK SPEAK TILL YOU MASTER IT
Practice for 30 minutes daily it regularly to develop a habit. We can practice 30 minutes daily for better result.
5.) ADD THE ELEMENT OF FUN
You need to add an element of fun to have fun as enjoying what we do is very important and the element of fun can be added by inventing games like doing commentary, dumb charades in English.
6.) TEST THE WATER
You should review your progress and develop by putting ourselves in uncomfortable situations to know how much we have learned. This can be done by participating in various activities like debates, competitions, presentations to get better at it.
When we will start following these things I can assure you that you will find the difference in yourself each day. I will be sharing more such things which you can do by yourself and learn communication.
I know even after this you will have apprehensions. But, for some time leave the apprehensions aside and start taking actions.
Remember “KNOWING = NOT KNOWING IF ACTIONS ARE NOT TAKEN“
Wait for the next Vlog where I will be sharing more such things which can help you to become a better communicator.
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About the Author: Anju Jindal
Anju is a trainer, entrepreneur, and career growth specialist who helps students, working professionals, women, and Job seekers to reach out to their goals by implementing a Career Growth plan